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Friends and Friendship

Who are friends

· A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be.
(By Douglas Pagels)

· A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad.
(By Arnold H. Glasgow)

What is friendship

It is an in-depth relationship combining trust, support, communication, loyalty, understanding, empathy, and intimacy.
These are certainly aspects of life that all of us crave.
Being able to trust and relax with your friend is a big part of friendship.

Friendship is a feeling which comes from heart on that condition our heart says

A friend is like a flower,
a rose to be exact,
Or maybe like a brand new gate
that never comes unlatched.
A friend is like an owl,
both beautiful and wise.
Or perhaps a friend is like a ghost,
whose spirit never dies.
A friend is like a heart that goes
strong until the end.
Where would we be in this world
if we didn't have a friend.

Factors that increase friendship

• After helping another person we like them more.
• Bringing enemies together leads towards friendship.
• Information about others reduces stereotyping.
• If we feel empathy we are likely to help.
• There are several factors that increase chances of friendship.
• Similar attitudes leads to friendship.
• Romantic partners tend to be similarly attractive.
• Exposure to people increases liking.
• Meeting and interacting increase chance of friendship.
• Both forms of conditioning leads us to like others.
• We prefer those with similar attitudes (and vice versa).

Other friendship factors

• We attach to others in secure or anxious ways.
• We attach to others in reciprocal and primitive ways.
• Supported people feel less stress.
• We talk/act like those we like.
• There are several styles of love.

In our life every person has a great role, many time we don't know what's his /her importance. but really i am lucky, i met those people who are really my good well-wisher. Really God is great, who gave me true friends. I can’t explain the real definition of a friend or what is the meaning of the friendship. According to me if a person who hurt you ,can’t be your friend. I never want to count those person who hurt me in my friend list. I have also some bad experience but this is life (combination of sweet and sour taste)ok you can say just like crack jack…. Wel come to the point. Hmmm… so we are talking about friend and friendship yaa I have a small circle not more but really awesome. So now I am going to tell some thing about my friends. Ok start………

Present time friend list:-

• Shilpa
• Esha
• Ankita
• Sunita
• Priyanka
• Anjali

I share many thing with them.

Shilpa, who is really a very good singer (classical ), hmmm…. Very emotional and keeps lots of love for me, that is shown by her cute arguments.

Esha….. She is always ready to do anything for me you know what is her quality she never want any attention from me. But I have a great value for her.

Ankita, Another name of attitude…. Very sentimental, little naughty, cute etc etc…… she is very sweet, innocent face wow….. I love her. She always try to understand the real condition, she has a awesome voice(just like Adnan sami.............................. no she is soft spoken girl), i never want to lost her............. well she has a perfect choice about her partner................ you know who........ guess......... ok i am telling you a very sweet cute BEAR........... want to meet him..... so just visit in my orkut profile........... she is always with me, in any type of situation . thnx Ankita

Sunita….. A super fast express…. Nobody can stop her. but she has a ability to justify the people. Many time she saved me. She is a soft spoken girl(No way) ……. No she is really very kind hearted and very sensitive, but sometime i found her in silly type thinking...... Oh! my God! wht a kind of girl............ she knows me but after that how can she think that i am wrong...... but no problem this is the concept of low processor............... (Don't know Pentium or wht????)I always want to see her happy. and i want a support from your side just do prayer for my sunita God give her a little bit of mind............ I want her in my life.......... (Widout drama what a life..... yeaa......)

Priyanka…. What I will say for her. God, what a drama company a mystery but solvable. She is really very cute , with childish nature (just like kid). But we can’t assume her without silly and stupid thing….. always think about my good well . I met her in my office as an office employee. But now she is my good friend.

Anjali…. Our, so called pandit ji… a good astrologer. Astrology is her hobby .. many times, she also give me lots of support. Thanks Anjali…..

I have also so many person, but i want to place them on right position in my life. it will take some time........ but sure i will write something about them......

So Now what’s conclusion….. yaa Shalini is surrounded by many true persons. Thank God you provide me many supporting software. Whenever I found my self in trouble you gave me an angel in the form of my true friend……

Once again Thnx My Angels…..

Hi today is 5th aug 2011,

When I wrote this blog (2008) , I was with “Sunita, Ankita, Priyanka, Shilpa” . On that time I was charged by full friendship energy and “Masti” coz I was going to write something in blog. Those things are absolutely true which I mentioned here. But today I am very far from them. Sunita is in Lucknow , Ankita in Banglore, Priyanka in Lucknow and Shilpa in Kolapur (near of Mumbai) and I am in Pune. We can only talk not regularly. Yaa I alwaz get Sunita’s msgs and feel like she is near with me.

We are on the way of success , success of our career. But still I miss something , morning tea with them with Parle G biscuits, kachaudiya (zidd karke sunita se mangana aur share naa karna :D) , golgappe, masti of sahara ganj. On that time we were living with our career dream “Yaar kuch karna hai”. And then came January 2010 and I moved from Lucknow to Ahmedabad. I was very happy coz I was going to start my dream journey . I was not aware I m going to lost beautiful moments of my life “my friends”.

I really miss Priyanka’s bichaka face , Sunita’s chaun chaun, Ankita’s aalas.

I was kidding all of you are really very sweet and very different from others. My dear friends I really miss you every day. These are not only words this is my feeling. I thought “Friendship week” is the good time to explain my feelings for all of you.

Love You All